The problem is that he does not text me, tries to spend time with me, or even says hi to me at the cafeteria. I was with my ex finance for 7 years I had a daughter previously and he took her on as his. Does the new partner seem like an “upgrade” of you? We both have learned lots and have grown to a different level of inner peace . I noticed this past holiday he keeps posting pictures of a girl who resembles me. Are you in a rebound relationship? The divorce will cost at least £30.000. I was in a relationship for almost three years with this guy I loved very much. But if it was a crazy, blowout, nasty breakup, with drama filled craziness on either side, then he’s probably just hoping to avoid future drama, and it’s probably not a rebound. Remember the reasons why you guys broke up. Hi, my name is Jennifer and me and my partner broke up 2 months ago after being together for 4 yrs. She never thought I d say anything like that . Since I broke contact within 3 weeks (prior to finding these steps), I will work on myself and continue the no contact rule for another 4 weeks. I mean He only went out with the first girl a couple weeks. I v not contacted him for a month now but two weeks back he unblocked mi n put a status available. I hope he will come back, i miss him so much. Thanks. She was in an emotional state when we were together as she ended her last relationship and we were together right after . im just thinking..w/ the time & quality of relationship we had..how could he hav moved on that soon??!? Your ex will be comparing you to this person and if you handle the breakup well, you’ll be in a good position to re-attract your ex away from the rebound. i dont know. So I have went back into no contact cause I really dont know what else to do. Do You Want Your Ex Boyfriend Back? Because losing you still hurts them, they tend to cloud the hurt by going into a relationship with someone with similar features to you, maybe their way of consoling themselves with another version of you. Let’s look at why. You begin to wonder if they really loved you at all and why they were able to move on so fast. he was the only guy who treated me right out of all the guys I’ve dated and I still love him but I know that I either have to find a way to let him go or hope that he comes back to me. In the 5 years we were together he hardly posted about me, so it seems odd to me that after a month or two of being with this girl ( who looks like me????) Understandably, both situations would hurt, especially if he jumps into bed with someone new right after the split.