You can choose to be alone or different in the U.S. It is not an ideal situation but a realistic one and it will take more than a few idols speaking out against these unrealistic expectation for it to change. "Korea has this mentality that everyone should conform, and that expectation is more harshly applied to women. So you think someone committing suicide is funny? Well you say blame SM or Sulli well now shes gone. The ridicule Sulli and other female K-pop stars have endured has provoked conversation about misogyny, violence and harassment against women. On the side, she is a professional screenplay writer and author. Since they are being packaged to appear as a certain image, then remaining unattached might make them more appealing to their fans. like,people shouldn't throw hate to choiza only, sully also responsible for her "image" she built and contract she promised with SM. If one signs their name on the dotted line, it only means they agree to make their personal life someone else's business. *laughing* "is this real" *yeah it is* Dating him might change her as a person. Too bad Sulli didn't have someone to guide her and has been used by the dirty old men in the industry because of her beauty. I loved her for that," Yudori said. I updated it. You cannot deny that he had some part in it, maybe telling her to be more "real" and that he is real so she should be all the while kept quoting her in his interviews so he gets more viewership. Peter W. Choi contributed to this report. I hope this is satire, but if it isn’t, you should immediately check into therapy, I hope Korea has mental institutions. "In the K-pop industry, it's extremely hard for a woman to survive in her career after a sexual scandal, including willing engagement in a romantic relationship.". Originally looking for a factual article and came across this childish garbage. … This was probably one of the articles that made her cry and rethink and evaluate her point of existence. At the same time, IU, another K-pop artist who was close to both Sulli and Goo Hara, […] It is not the celebrity's craft or work that is sold, it's their personality. Her fans are all to blame and you are too. Choiza is awesome too. I really go crazy No matter what she was still human and she had her rights. But you all judged the song in the most superficial and shallow way. Now Sulli is officially known as being a sex crazed and unwanted woman so he has to break off with her for his image. Depression is a far more complex problem. Two people fell in love and the company denied it. She liked funny people. Marlene Bertrand from USA on March 18, 2015: I found this to be very fascinating. There is nothing more dangerous than people making assumptions about depression, causes of suicide and what may be done about it. In 2007, singer and actor Lee Hye-ryeon -- known as U;Nee -- died at age 25, followed by actor Choi Jin-sil in 2008 at 39. The Goblin singer said: ‘She would always cook for me whenever I visit her. That doesn’t make her “naughty or a liar”. P.s.she didn't do anything illegal so stop blaming her.#get a life ,read good books but then being educated doesn't neccesarily make a man modernized and rational..change uo mindset first. After continuous speculations of a breakup, the two sides have confirmed that they have indeed called it quits. Incels criticized her for being sexualized by her boyfriend. New Zealand man under probe for alleged North Korea sanctions violation. The fans have some, as silly as it may sound, right to be angry. You really are disgusting. In the last few years, several celebrities and a number of students have died because of cyberbullying," Min Byeong-cheol, a professor at Hanyang University, told UPI through an interpreter. And yes, this is a story that is true even to North American young pop stars. "For most K-pop stars, women or men, it pretty much means death of your career," she added. DBSK famously said they were the ones who decided on their image. I didn’t know women were “ruined” by dating someone while in their 20s in the current century. But here, there's a really strong stigma -- being different is something you really fear.". P.s. There was pretty much no way for her to win," Yudori said. The question is why companies even forbid it. You are a horrible human being! Dead. Sulli began her career as a child TV star before joining the K-pop girl group f(x). Coca-Cola to discontinue 200 brands in COVID-19 strategy shift, California court says Lyft, Uber must classify drivers as employees, Senate begins debate on Supreme Court nominee Amy Coney Barrett, Pennsylvania Supreme Court rejects signature matching on mail-in ballots. She was such a bad ass. In South Korea, potential K-pop stars are often identified from an elementary school age and begin training with major record labels for several years -- often living out of a dormitory -- with no guarantee of being signed to an act. And only I want to look at you, I’m not saying this out of a young heart What?! They are objects to be had and if they are off the market, there isn't much point in selling them, right?For fans to support these celebrities, they should be, no matter how remotely, "available" for the fans. With those legs that are so pretty by just standing still The reasons are dumb and one sided. When they broke up she didn't have anything left just a bunch of haters and few fans. That is why new boy bands are given reality shows and are thrown into variety shows they showcase their "characters". May her death be a catalyst to bring Korea into the modern age and save other young women from the same fate. Choiza claimed that he met her at Heechul's party which was even fan speculated that he went uninvited in the first place. Some have blamed celebrity gossip reporters and online trolls for Sulli's death, prompting several anti-cyber bullying bills to enter the National Assembly in recent weeks. I have no problem with Sulli dating anyone. And the list likely goes, with South Korea holding the highest suicide rate of any OECD nation. Others might argue that they want to work or perform. Her record label denied their relationship at first. After all the support they have shown Sulli, SM lied to them.Is Sulli to blame?Well, the girl fell in love. Sulli started an acting career when she was a child and was still a child when she joined f(x). This article is dumb for calling her a liar. Being in a relationship with Choiza gave her freedom which she never experienced before. Note that this story was originally published back in 2015. Sulli was found dead in her house in Seongnam on Monday afternoon by her manager. They would think over and over whether you'll like the song or what. May this person Rest In Peace. Everyone is free to express whatever they want to express. They sell their looks and the fantasy of their bodies. There is the leader, the cute maknae (youngest), the mysterious one, the boy next door, the innocent and pure, and a whole lot of other personalities.In Korean entertainment, the "art" is a secondary concern. "And bullying matters more, I think, for Korean kids and teenagers than Westerners. File Photo by Yonhap, Saad Hariri's return as Lebanese prime minister raises hope, skepticism. The bottom line is that these supposed artists are packaged and made to sell their personalities from the get go.The market is provided with an image of a celebrity and based on this image, they decide on the amount of support they will give. A 2012 K-pop hit has re-entered the South Korean charts following the death of former girl band member Sulli. When I see you, I'm not saying Sulli is 100% innocent, but she didn't maliciously "trick" anyone like you're implying. This is a true real life relationship. Writing this kind of article is stupid. Sulli's TIRED OF HIDING some aspects of her personality in order to please people's expectations of her *cute* image. Either it's not a relationship worth fighting for or the idol isn't ready for the possible backlash because there will be backlash. Don't u get how hard it is!? Since Sulli's death, IU's 2012 song "Peach" -- which was reportedly inspired by her friendship with Sulli -- re-emerged at the top of streaming charts. Sulli is not the only K-pop star to die by suicide in recent years. Money hunger and blind hatred has clearly corrupted everything in your life if you felt this was and still is appropriate to have released. This article wreaks of clout chasing after her death. IU’s song Peach – which was written about Sulli – has re-entered Korean charts after the death of the former f(x) star. "There were certain feminists who scrutinized her for openly expressing her sexuality. Oct. 23 (UPI) -- The United Nations said Friday the two main warring factions in Libya have officially signed a permanent cease-fire agreement that covers all areas of the North African nation. ps:if you have time, can you please fix the words? On Oct. 29, South Korean lawmakers held a press conference pushing for a bill that would require public institutions and employers to hold cyberbullying prevention classes. How would you have felt if this article was written and aimed at you rather than her? He got more famous after dating Sulli and she went downhill after dating him . I guess people should start respecting their idol's personal life decision. You sell your personality, fans will expect to get what you sold them.Further, if the celebrities feel that their personal life is no one's business, then why deny it in the first place? For your article to imply that Choiza shouldn't be blamed at all, but Sulli should for "tricking the fans" is appalling and another example of men constantly getting a "get out of jail free card" and women being blamed for EVERYTHING. Former f(x) member Sulli and Choiza call off their romantic relationship after dating for 2 years and 7 months, and netizens are running wild with rumors.. The problem is that they participate in forming this illusion to achieve their goals and when they realize that there is a trade off to their ambition, they resent the very industry that afforded them their success. One cannot talk about IU-Kiha relationship without mentioning Sulli and Choiza. I'm going to portray this image." She made her debut as a child actress in 2005. The only thibg that makes us mad about her relationship is how she didn't are about anything and left everything behing to start a relationship with Choiza. These are the fans that follow them in all of their concerts even if they have seen it ten times just to make sure their concert gets sold out.For every action there is an equal reaction. just advice for better reading. You are so pathetic. WTF. This is a serious social issue in Korea.". You may also just send me a message directly. Choiza has also something to blame but the main culprits here are Netizens. He does drug aye that's why a lot of people criticize and also it's like a 30 years old dating a 14 years old,he's way older than her,sulli should look more carefully to who she's dating cuz he have thug friends and get involve with some shit stuff.She's a good person but the person she's dating umm *confused* at first yeah I thought he was a uncle or dad or friend or something then these articles *dating*.